Today was one of those days that I don't particularly like. Over 12 hours of wearing a suit after not sleeping so well...
But once I got home, out of the suit I came, right into my lounging clothes. Then I signed onto Facebook and read a Blog from comedian Craig Shoemaker that talked about how laughter is healthy, and even referencing many countries with longer lifespans due in part to their lifestyles of laughter, relaxing, and enjoying the good life.
Now, will I take this more into a serious practice? Sheesh, I hope so. Some of the stresses of being a Pastor can drive a Preacher to an early grave.
Don't misunderstand me - I enjoy what I do, working for God, being there for people in births, deaths, marriages, and such. But there are those moments like today when a Lay Speaker from another denomination comes to talk to me to see how I can help with someone's wedding in a few months, and after explaining what I can do, she then says "so do they just need to call you the day before?" WHAT?? ARE YOU KIDDING???
I can now honestly say that I gave a firm "no" to doing the work that I do THE RIGHT WAY. So, maybe I'll have a wedding to do this summer, or maybe not. But whatever happens, I can honestly say that I stuck to my principles and the doctrine of the Church.
Then just a bit ago, I was thinking of all that I have to get done before I go on vacation next week (speaking of stress!!!!), and I decided to see if my brother posted a Blog. Sure enough, he did, writing about my parents' upcoming anniversary. With it, he attached a video that showed a segment from the CBS Sunday Morning Show that talked about how the past 50 years have impacted our lives.
On the 24th, my parents' will be celebrating 50 years of marriage. If that don't bring happiness and smiles, then I don't know what would.
So as I wrap things up and get some sleep, find the laughter in things - there is always something to find funny... just watch and pay attention, even if it means laughing at yourself. Find the joy in things - like have you ever REALLY just stopped and look at the stars? Try counting them (but I would suggest lying down to do that, otherwise you'll have a really sore neck". Call an old friend from years back - see who remembers what, and how much things have or haven't changed.
Be happy.
OH - and by the way, here's a copy of the video that I spoke of... it's really interesting.
50 years... Wow!!
